It is not the pics. It is the ad. You are too "nice". Most of us want to fuck someone with no strings attached. Most of us are looking for a quick affair.It is okay to want more or to be selective in who you choose, but you are turning most of your prospects away because your adis too rigid and limiting. Be open minded and make your decisions on a case by case basis. A close up of your cock especially in a hard state might also help